February 7, 2006


  • [Look CLOSELY at the REF's chest]




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    By Skip Bayless


    DETROIT — Dear Seahawks fans:


         I’ve been tough on your team the last few weeks. I’ve called your club the Sea Frauds and said they didn’t belong in a Super Bowl. After watching Sunday night’s game, I believe that more than ever.
         But, as I’ve also written, your team was blessed all the way to Detroit. This was the first Super Bowl that found itself with two Cinderella stories. These Steelers, the AFC’s bottom seed, weren’t exactly Terry Bradshaw’s Steelers of the late ’70s.
         But although these Steelers were favored by 4 — and although I picked them 24-14 — I’m not sure they deserved to win this game.



         And after spending a week in Detroit, I thought the city had cleaned up most of its crime.



         The first-quarter offensive pass interference called on Darrell Jackson that turned a touchdown into a field goal was robbery enough. But the fourth-quarter holding call on Sean Locklear made you wonder whether the refs had even less of Aretha’s r-e-s-p-E-c-t for your Seahawks than I do.
         At that point, your guys had overcome enough mistakes to get blown out in most Super Bowls. In fact, this one had nearly gotten out of hand midway through the third quarter, when the Steelers drove to a first-and-10 at your 11-yard line with a 14-3 lead. But on third-and-6 from the 7, Ben Roethlisberger tossed a throw into the flat that cost him the MVP award and nearly caused coach Bill Cowher’s head to explode.
         It was, of course, picked off by backup cornerback Kelly Herndon and returned 76 yards. Matt Hasselbeck’s 16-yard touchdown fling to Jerramy Stevens rather shockingly turned what looked like a 21-3 game into a 14-10 margin. 
         And suddenly your Seahawks were going to Motown.



         Momentum Town.



         The Seahawks forced another Pittsburgh punt, and here they came again. Hasselbeck still makes me nervous because he always looks as if he’s running a frantic two-minute offense. But the biggest surprise of this game was how much time Walter Jones and Co. were giving him to throw. Blitzburg, schmitzburg. Your guys had continually knocked the bullies back on their heels and turned down the volume of a Ford Field crowd that looked and sounded more like a Heinz Field crowd.

         Joey Porter, the loudest Steeler, was having the quietest game. 

         And on first-and-10 at the Steelers’ 19, Hasselbeck had enough time to listen to Smokey Robinson and the Miracles’ “Second that Emotion” before firing another strike to Porter’s favorite pregame target — Stevens. Eighteen-yard completion! First-and-goal at the 2! Seattle about to take a 17-14 lead!
         I could almost hear Mount Rainier erupting.
         But on this night, the Steelers had their own version of your 12th Man. He wore a striped shirt and a whistle. He threw a flag.
    And Locklear went down in Seahawks history.



    Way down.



         Until the week before the NFC Championship Game, I barely knew who Locklear was. But he made national news by being charged with domestic violence after an incident with his girlfriend outside a Seattle nightclub. He did a couple of nights in jail, but coach Mike Holmgren allowed him to play pending his Feb. 13 hearing.
         Now Locklear will be forever remembered in your fair city for an entirely different reason.



    Holding, No. 75!



         On the replay, I couldn’t see Locklear do anything different from what most linemen do on every play. These days, you have to tackle to hold, and Locklear didn’t tackle.



    Phantom, killer penalty.



         Your guys wound up in a third-and-18, and Hasselbeck cut loose one of his mystery balls that Ike Taylor intercepted, as he should have in the first quarter. Worse, Hasselbeck was wrongly flagged for a below-the-waist block when he was trying to make the tackle. Hasselbeck was punished 15 more yards.
         At that point, your guys seemed to be hanging their heads as if they had decided the NFL just couldn’t live with them winning its showcase game.
         Moments later, it took another Pittsburgh trick play — a reverse pass by Antwaan Randle El to Hines Ward for a 43-yard touchdown — to basically ice the game on a snowy night. That made it 21-10, and that’s the way it stayed.
         Too bad your Seahawks didn’t have Porter in their postgame locker room. Had he been a Seahawk, he surely would have filled tapes and notebooks telling the media how the refs stole the game.
         Jackson definitely gave Steelers safety Chris Hope a little push. But it didn’t give Jackson enough of an advantage to prompt a penalty. The ref called it only after Hope turned and begged for it.
         That cost your team four points, a little momentum and a little more psychological edge. The Pittsburgh offense isn’t built to come from behind or to win a shootout. A 7-0 Seattle lead would have tightened the Steelers’ throats more than 3-0 would have.
         The holding call on Locklear clearly cost your Seahawks seven more points. Four plus seven equals 11 — Pittsburgh’s margin of victory. And who knows how the Steelers would have responded if they had suddenly found themselves behind early in the fourth quarter?
         No, I haven’t yet mentioned Roethlisberger’s dive for the goal line that was ruled a touchdown late in the first half — and upheld after a replay review. To me, it looked as if the nose of the ball barely crossed the white line while Roethlisberger was airborne. Either way, it was so close that it was inconclusive and didn’t warrant a touchdown reversal.
         Besides, the odds were that Pittsburgh could have scored on fourth-and-inches. Then again, Cowher can be so conservative that he might have opted for the field goal that would have only tied the score 3-3.
         The Jackson play, the Roethlisberger play, the Locklear play — as the Rolling Stones sang in their halftime finale, you couldn’t get no satisfaction, Seahawks fans.
         Your team had only one turnover to Pittsburgh’s two … and your team lost.
         Your team held Roethlisberger to a 9-for-21 night for only 123 yards, with two interceptions … and your team lost.
    Your Shaun Alexander surprised me by running for almost 100 yards (95 on 25 carries) … and your team lost.
    Your offense had almost 400 yards (396) against that vaunted Steelers defense … and your team lost.
         In the end, it lost because of two bad calls and because Pittsburgh simply made three or four more good plays. The Steelers converted 8 of 15 third downs to your 5 of 17. Too many drops and near-TD catches, too many off-target flings by Hasselbeck at crucial times, too much high-schoolish clock management by the quarterback and coach at the end of the half and game.
         I’m sorry, I still don’t think he’s a top-echelon quarterback. Then again, I’m not convinced Roethlisberger is the next Elway.
         The play he made that salvaged a first-half lead for the Steelers — the scramble left and deep heave from barely behind the line of scrimmage — should have been batted down or even intercepted by your safety Michael Boulware. Instead, Boulware made a poor play on the ball and Ward caught it.
         On Randle El’s trick touchdown pass — Pittsburgh’s best pass of the night — your cornerback Marcus Trufant took a bad angle and ran underneath it.
         So two bad plays by your defensive backs helped Ward — who had dropped two passes, including one that should have been a touchdown — win the MVP award. Oh, well, it was the kind of game that should have been played in Week 9. The Steelers didn’t have one player on offense or defense who was clearly the difference maker.
         Your Seahawks lost this game a little more than Pittsburgh won it.
         Your defense battled its guts out and mostly stuffed Pittsburgh’s run. But one breakdown allowed Willie Parker to escape untouched for a 75-yard TD. You can’t overcome mistakes like that in a game like this.
         But, no, you can’t overcome 11 lost points worth of penalties, either. On this night, you belonged in the Super Bowl as much as Pittsburgh did, for what that’s worth.
    On this night, the only frauds wore stripes.



    Skip Bayless can be seen Monday through Friday on “Cold Pizza,” ESPN2′s morning show, and at 4 p.m. ET on ESPN’s “1st & 10.” His column appears twice a week on Page 2. You can e-mail Skip here.

February 1, 2006

January 25, 2006

  • It’s been so long since my last entry… almost forgot how to blog


    Many thoughts are racing through my mind… anticipating what 2006 will bring.  Could this year actually be better than 2005?
    …the answer?


    ABSOLUTELY!


    2005: to recap last year –> TOTALLY FREAKIN’ AMAZING!  THERE IS A GOD AND HIS NAME IS J-E-S-U-S! [cheerleader move - use your imagination]


    I feel light as a feather and burdened with a heavy heart… all at the same time.  God is with me yet there is so much to do… Where do I start?


    On the flip side of things, I think I really am beginning to feel comfortable in my own skin, in that, I am able to receive blessings without guilt, thus truly being thankful for gifts.  It’s so true, that one cannot sincerely love others until one learns to love the self… selflessly.    I like who God made me to be… to become… to strive for.  How could I not?  He made me… heh heh

    seriously though… it’s late and I can’t sleep.  It’s been going on for 3 weeks now… insomnia.
    but still… God is good!


    Who is this God who goes sooooo out of His way for me?  …and you, too?   
    God is good…
    sooooo good…


    just good.


    God.

January 7, 2006

  • Jae’s 30th Birthday Dinner!

    Hey wonderful people!

    I’ve been getting some e-mails today about RSVPing… no worries.  If you can make it, just come on down!  Thanks everyone for the Birthday wishes!  I’m 30 today!  WOOO HOOOOO!


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    Hey!


    I sent an e-mail to some people, but here goes again…


    It’s my 30th birthday this coming Saturday and I’d be  honored if my friends could join me for dinner at Siam @ 5:30pm – that’s Saturday, January 7th.  I know it’s late notice, so no worries if you can’t make it!


    Truthfully, I wasn’t going to make a big deal out of it… just have a quiet dinner, BUT some friends got really upset with me, so I’m sending out invites.  Please RSVP with me at jae.b.yu@gmail.com if you can make it.


    God is good!  Always was and always will be!

January 6, 2006

  • We can’t all be heroes because somebody has to sit on the curb and clap as they go by.
      – Will Rogers


     


    You have to know how to accept rejection and reject acceptance.
      – Ray Bradbury


     


    Some things to think about…
    God is good!!!!

December 23, 2005

  • …just a thought…


    about timing… the right things come when the time is right.
    speaking of… I think many “single” people “think” that the time is “now!”, when in fact, we’re really “asking” subconsciously, “Why not now?”


    in remembrance… as with many things, certain events take place when your “ducks are in a row”.  Seemingly, when things should work out, when it’s not your time, it’s just not your time [Get over it ].  I’ve had one “girlfriend” my whole life [and she was supposed to be the one... I had waited 25 years to meet her].  I don’t date and don’t plan on “dating”, but then, how would I meet the right person?  Well, that’s what “true” friends are for, right?  j/k  It’s in His hands, but when He says “Go for it!”, you’d better.


    I would often think back as to why I broke up with her… because I analyze things…


    A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions–as attempts to find out something. Success and failure are for him answers above all.

    Friedrich Nietzsche (1844 – 1900),
     
    and because I missed her a while afterwards.  Obviously, it wasn’t my time.  I wasn’t ready.  So, a decision was made [because we arrived at the point of moving to the next level or calling it quits - it wouldn't have been right to make her wait for me to finish my morph].
    I don’t regret it. 
    I’m in a good place.


    The “GOOD NEWS” is that she’s getting married next year, “Finally” she says.    Good for her… and good for me, too

    No doubt that most of us will continue to change throughout our lives [hopefully, growing to be more Christ-like], and there are multiple ”destinations” reached, at which certain characteristics solidify upon reaching it.  ”Defining moments” we call them, influencing our preferences and decision making processes; our psyche.  We’ll continue to grow on this foundation, only to be changed by the miraculous healing touch of our Lord and Savior as He sees fit.  I’m stronger now… and weaker, too… and the weaker I get, the stronger “He” becomes in me… so I’m stronger. 

    I’ll be turning 30 in a couple of weeks… and for some reason, I always felt that “things” would start happening as I approached that age.  Even as a freshman @ the University of Washington in 1994 [EEK!], realizing that my love for sciences|medicine was a terrible deception, I knew that my “soul searching” would conclude sometime in the future, approaching the tender age of 30.    I’m not a prophet per se… but I just knew… [foreshadow]

    A flurry of events transpired this past year and it was more than I could ever expect from His bounty.  ..but a question still remains… “Why not now?”
    He’s putting that question to rest, too, as with many things… I’ve learned to wait patiently for His unveiling [whereas I'd take off on my own before and just make a mess of things - then the clean up effort was a phenomenon in itself, but I guess it gave God more opportunity to demonstrate His power  Please, let me live in my skewed rationale ].


    Ha ha ha… I can’t help but laugh at myself… my folly… my silliness…  
    …I get so serious and critical sometimes.
    “Dude, just calm down!” is what I’d like to yell in the mirror…
    …so I do sometimes
    It’s therapeutic.


    Hmmmmm…… I don’t really have a point.  As the initial words conveyed….
    …just a thought.


    God is good!

December 20, 2005

  • digerati: persons knowledgeable about computers.


    You mean “GEEK” isn’t the only word?



    I’m still working on my entry about the XBOX 360 fiasco… but let me just say that those movies about people going crazy for a “toy” during Christmas is not too far fetched.  In fact, I experienced it first hand and it’s not pretty. 


December 16, 2005

December 12, 2005

  • People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can’t find them, make them.
      – George Bernard Shaw


    “People” also included me for many years… and then one day it dawned on me, that I have choices, even in the most hopeless situations; abandoning the idea of the “victim of circumstance” allowed me to grow in areas that had remained juvenile for so many years… so, I’m growing in ways that are new and exciting, witnessing the wonders of His handiwork.


    Lord, it is only by grace…only by grace, that we are able to change and grow.
    Being able to see the changes occur before our very eyes is a miracle…
    …and an incredible blessing|testimony.


    Being salt…being light… is simpler and less burdensome than we perceive.  Light and salt, in itself, conducts very little “action”, but in its state of “being” light and “being” salt, they affect the environment around them… and in this way, we are “witnesses” to this world as well.


    Why would Almighty God choose to use us?  Insignificant me…
    Amazing…

    God is good!

November 30, 2005

  • How to Find a Gift for a Self Proclaimed Nerd or Geek


    Do you know someone who calls him or herself a class ‘A’, dyed-in-the-wool, true-blue nerd? Nerds come in all shapes and sizes, and proud super-nerds usually have unique preferences when it comes to gifts. Here’s how to find the perfect token of affection for the geeky genius in your life.


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    Steps



    1. Know the difference between a geek and a nerd. To the common people, they may be the same. However, to someone who is a geek or nerd, will find it quite rude to call them that which they are not.
    2. Find your nerd friend’s passion. Geeks are generally very smart with computers. You might even say they know “way too much” about the topic for any kind of practical application (e.g. memorizing about 300 digits of pi). A self-proclaimed geek’s passion should be rather obvious (self-proclaimed geeks specialize with computers, whether it be hardware or software, programming languages or operating systems). Some common examples of nerd-like passions include chemistry, comic books, stamp or coin collections, math, Shakespeare, Tolkien, classical music, and writing.
    3. Think of a gift relating to that passion. Keep in mind that nerds, whether they be math nerds, chemistry nerds, or whatever, will enjoy something that either relates to something obscure about this subject, something that alludes to their obsession with it, or flatters their deep knowledge of the subject. As an example, let’s try a common nerdy obsession: Math. What would a math nerd consider a cool gift? Well, the best nerd gifts are ones that relate to something obscure about this subject, particularly something very unique. For example, you can get any book in the universe about math, and a math nerd will probably gobble it up…But get them an autographed book by their favorite mathematician, and you’ll score major bonus points. Or, what about a clock that, instead of the numbers one through 12, has the unit circle? Posters, thank-you cards, a math puzzle that you have written, or anything else that lets math nerds surround themselves with their own intellectual obsession make thoughtful gifts as well.
    4. Search high and low for gifts related to their passion. There are millions of websites now that have classic nerdy stuff. Some good gifts are available from well known providers like eBay and Amazon. There are also a number of “geek stores” dedicated to satisfying specific geek needs (see the external links below for some examples).
    5. Add an extra touch. The more thickly you can pour it on, the better. Be creative with the wrapping, the card, etc., in ways that, again, refer to his or her passion. For a geek, find wrapping paper that looks like a circuit board. For the science nerd, hand them some safety goggles while they opens the package. For the math nerd, make a mathematical scavenger hunt to get to their gift. There are hundreds and hundreds of possibilities; explore them…Your friend will love you for it!




    Tips



    • Remember that, though ideal, a gift doesn’t have to have a lot of real-life practical application in order to be a great gift. Take, for instance, an alarm clock that gives the time in binary instead of decimal. Sure it tells the time, but why would one want to go to the extra effort of translating the binary into decimal just to know what time it is? This is the coolest gift in the universe for a math nerd (or geek) because it flatters his/her understanding of binary and his/her ability to transfer numbers from one base to another.
    • An obscure or esoteric ‘toy’ is almost sure to pique their interest. Example cool gifts for a physics/math nerd would include: a super-egg, a snail-ball, orbitz soda (hard to find), a home-brew holography kit, fog zero-blaster, and a glass klein bottle. These are great because they give nerds an opportunity to explain the gift to their friends.
    • If your friend is one of those people who seems to be reading a book per week, you could get them a gift certificate for the local bookstore; but also consider paying off their library fines, if they’re the disorganized type. If they like writing, try a calligraphy set. If they like playing the piano or another instrument, get them a gift certificate for somewhere that sells sheet music. Or if you want to be more expensive, buy them a variation of their instrument of choice: if they play flute, you could give them a piccolo, for example.
    • If you have a well known university in your area, chances are it will have a few very well known professors in a specialized field. Most profs enjoy talking about their research and are very good about signing books that they’ve written regarding a particular subject.


    Warnings!!!



    • If one thing is for sure, nerds like the fact that they know a lot about certain things that others know very little about. A big no-no on a gift, then, is to get him something generic that refers to his obsession. For example, even though a math nerd loves math, don’t get them a calculator. EVERYONE has a calculator, and so it’s not a compliment to their unique position in society as the person who has “nerdy” math stuff. Nerds are interested in gifts that identify them as a nerd. Geeks are interested in gifts that identify them as a geek. Which would you think pegs someone as a math nerd: “He has a calculator” or “He has a clock that is the unit circle instead of the numbers 1 through 12?”
    • Buy a gift of appropriate complexity for the recipient. Don’t embarrass a geek with “Windows XP for Dummies”. Conversely don’t buy a PhD level book on TCP/IP for a sixth grader.
    • If your nerdy friend is only semi-self-proclaimed (i.e. only their closest friends know of their nerdyness) make sure not to give them the gift in front of a large crowd, thereby making their sort-of-secret passions known to the world.
    • Be careful about buying electronics and specialized gifts or anything that will “be of use” to the geek. Even something like a wireless mouse may require careful consideration for a computer geek and very important not get “the wrong one.”
    • Star Wars and Star Trek are NOT the same thing.