February 13, 2005
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So… I hung out with the boys Friday night… it’s been a while since I hung out with the fellas from T-town and as always…memorable to say the least. There must’ve been a lot of things I had suppressed… cause I drank… a lot… and kept pace with them… not to the point of doing embarrassing things… but yeah, last night was just about blowing off some steam. I’m not ashamed or embarrassed, so that’s a good thing and I’m thankful for the chance to reconnect with the boys… good times. I’m not much of a drinker… maybe once or twice a year, I’ll drink something harder than a light beer… so this is one out of the “once or twice” a year… heh heh ^__^
One of the boys broke up with his fiance… because her insecurities led to disrespecting my friend and his family. I guess it had been going on for years and my friend shared a lot of things he had kept secret previously. He genuinely loved her and still cares for her…but she hurt him so much in so many ways… He is truly one of the last “nice guys” in the world left…He was really heart broken though he was the one who broke it off. I feel for him: it’s not easy for a guy like him to let go of a woman he loves, though it may be for the best. Having seen my friends break up after 5 years…it’s like a divorce almost.
The lesson: MARRIAGE is a MIRACLE. So many things have to work out. The two people have to meet and fall in love at the right time in the right place…familiy matters have to work out…hearts becoming one…gaining the ability to support each other’s weaknesses and having the security of letting someone else know what your insecurities are… building trust and the fine art of giving more than expecting… finances… and the list goes on and one.. and above all, God has to bless it. There are so many things I have yet to learn… things that I’m not even aware of yet… what hope is there but to put all hope in our Creator…
only He knows… only HIM…
aaaah… starting tomorrow… working out again with some intensity and purpose. Staying in shape helps me so much to stay focused b/c I don’t get as easily tired… and…I’m starting to get addicted to basketball again… so, i’ts been like 3 months since I gave away my XBOX to my little brother… NO MORE VIDEO GAMES!!!! Turns out, NOT playing video games is a good thing… who would’ve guessed? heh heh heh… gotta be more productive…. and get in better shape…it’s the only body I’ve got… got’s to take care of it. ^___^
Comments (2)
hi jae oppa
how’s it going! oh yeah, i forgot about this song 
glad you had some quality time to spend with your “T-town boys”
marriage is most definately a MIRACLE. not to be taken too lightly…like people are doing these days. it’s such a commitment, where both parties have to make such an effort to keep it fruitful
) my sister and i were just talking about this the other day…
anyway! sounds like your job is treating you well (or rather, God is)! it’s about time
good to hear…
T-town! i told you not to say that!
just kidding
sigh…is it really that hard to find the one and get married? im pretty screwed then…
have a nice valentines day oppa, i forgot to tell you during church.
bye!