December 9, 2004

• The following comment was a response to a sister’s post… feel free to add on to it or correct me.

  
  

  >Women are too often suckers for the “I’m sorry” speech or the “I love you” speech or the “I really didn’t mean to hurt you” speech… Women are also suckers for the “nice guy” routine… don’t fall for all those wonderful things guys do or say in the attempt to “sweep you off your feet”… cause men often sweep women off their feet and forget to catch them…  Guys evidently act on many instincts…the “chase” is one of the most exciting things for a guy and guys can smell the emotions they’re messing with… so ladies…BEWARE and don’t let your emotions get the better of you!  Men are well, too often just busters, especially Asian (Korean) guys who are raised to believe they are the princes and future kings of this world… I am also guilty of this.  What to do?  Pray and pray and pray… and pray some more and then just say “No” to guys until the appointed time the Lord has prepared…you’ll know when that is… don’t ask when that will be.  AND, stick together ladies…help out those gals who allow guys to bring the BS and shut it down with the quickness.

  
  

  >Guys…we are meant to be more than followers of our male genitalia…which leave us no better than creatures that act on sheer instincts…namely, animals.  I am just as guilty as the next male…’cause I suck, too, and I haven’t done enough to help the situation of there being too many of us who “suck”, although most of know better, we don’t act on it.  So, what to do? pray and pray and pray…and pray some more… and consider the virtues of what makes a male a real man… ’cause contrary to popular belief, being male does not make you a man.  Men, we are equal partners in the future joining of two hearts to become one body, as well as the protectors of our mostly physically weaker partners (there are times when, whoa…a girl can just kick butt), ’cause the Lord knows, women are superior in so many other ways.  Guys, let’s not be exploiters of weakness… don’t mess with girls’ emotions… protect them and you’ll end up finding a greater woman inside who in-turn will make you a better man.  If you’ve got any intelligence, you would’ve realized this fact and accepted it.  I once heard, “Behind every great man is an even greater woman”.  So fellas…you want the real deal?  Be the real deal.  I live my best to be the real deal, too, but falter…so let’s watch out for one another as well.

  
  

  >I normally don’t write so much as a response…a bit verbose, I know.  I may be the subject of some hatred from some guys out there, but that’s all right… it’s ALL good.  we’ll sit and chat for a while over Starbucks.

  
  

   

  
  

  ^__^  ha ha ha… life is full of interest.

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